Mt. Pleasant Classical Academy

Perhaps the most valuable result of all education is the ability to make yourself do the thing you have to do, when it ought to be done, whether you like it or not…..� Thomas Henry Huxley

College Update

Filed under: College — June 7, 2010 @ 9:19 pm

DS was accepted to the nine colleges he applied to. Nine very nice merit scholarships. He made his decision and will be going to the college where, through three scholarships his tuition will be totally covered. As long as he keeps his GPA above a 3.0.  Full tuition covered! Not bad for a kid who was never, ever going to read according to the public school. (If they had had their way he wouldn’t be reading today, nor doing Diff EQ)

Not bad at all.

Several family and friends, who really must not know us very well, tried to convince me that DS needed to live on campus, at the college. No need to discuss this option with us since I never, ever gave DS that option. He’ll live on campus. Thankfully he wants to live on campus. He knows it is time to spread those wings and he’s READY.

March 14 — Happy Birthday

Filed under: Family Stuff — March 14, 2010 @ 12:47 am
Fourteen. 14. A ten plus four. Such a little number when compared to the number of people in the world or the number of sand on the beach.

But an important number.

In the past 14 years I have lost a father, a mother and a father-in-law. I have moved from a town that referred to me as a foreigner after residing there for 16 years to a state that felt like home the first week. I have traveled across this great country of ours twice, visited Las Vegas, St Johns, NYC and countless other towns and cities.

In the past 14 years I have owned just 2 cars, 3 dogs and one cat. The cat was stolen from us by a supposed friend. I learned about homeschooling, taught my youngest to speak, taught my kids to read, to do math, to write their name, to ride a bike, to make a fire, to wash their clothes and the bathroom, to make dinner…….

14 years ago tonight I went into my son’s bedroom and hugged him goodnight for I knew that his life, our family life would soon change. A new baby would be coming into our lives and that turned out to be our youngest son. He will turn 14 on Sunday the 14th. So much has happened in those 14 years, so much. I remember tomorrow though like it was today. Every minute of it.

Happy Birthday son! It has been a wonderful journey.

College Acceptances

Filed under: Family Stuff — March 14, 2010 @ 12:26 am

No one shared with me what a roller-coaster ride senior year would be. Or, if they did I didn’t hear them.

Sure I heard that it was a year of waiting—waiting for the first acceptance, waiting for the financial aid letters to come, waiting for the merit scholarship letters to come in, waiting for DS to write the essay for this scholarship or that scholarship, but oh my…..I haven’t felt this way for 15 or 16 years. I have to go back to the days of infertility prior to DS #2 to feeling like I do now. Such a roller coaster ride.

To date DS has been accepted to 8 colleges and received several merit scholarships from schools that award merit awards in their acceptance letters. But we continue to wait. Wait for ‘the other’ schools to announce their merit awards. Right now DS wants to go to the college 7 hours from home. It would mean a mountain of debt for him but geez, he felt at home there. SO is that where he should go? I certainly don’t want him to take on that kind of debt just to be away from home but I also understand the desire to be somewhere that feels like home. Somewhere where the kids are like you, geeky like you, awkward in a cafeteria line when they bump into you just like you would, and interested in discussing thermodynamics at the breakfast table because that is what interests you.

How I wish we would win the lottery so I could say to DS, go. Go where you feel at home, where you will enjoy being, even if it is hours from us.

College Search/Acceptance Update

Filed under: College — January 12, 2010 @ 7:36 pm

DS#1 might be adding another school to his short/long list. To date he has applied to 9 schools, been admitted to 5 schools with merit  scholarships to 4. The fifth school notifies merit scholarship recipients in March. The other four schools we’re still waiting to hear from and might not hear from them until March.

We tentatively filled out the FAFSA this past weekend. We don’t know if DS will qualify for financial aid or not. There are several scholarships DS is applying for that require the FAFSA be filled even though they are merit based and not financial based.

In early December I received a tip from Brenda (THANK YOU!) to go to the FAFSA site and apply for a PIN. It can take several days to receive a PIN and one is needed when you sign your FAFSA. Having this ahead of time helped us immensely.

The FAFSA can be filed after January 1st of the school year you are requesting funds for. It is also important to file as early as possible so that your name gets into the queue for consideration. If you wait then by the time your name comes up all available funds might already be gone! Yikes!

The downside of this is that we must also file our taxes soon. Like early February. Yikes! The FAFSA wasn’t that hard to fill out for us although many others do not share my opinion. The hardest part was figuring out what cash we had in our checking and savings accounts—thank goodness for online banking. Then we had to figure out the funds we had in stocks and money market accounts. Well, that was easy for us too. We don’t have a business, or a second home, or lots of funds laying around.

College Visits

Filed under: College — December 31, 2009 @ 7:09 pm
My friends with Juniors / 11th graders have asked me as to when we would start our college visits. Start? We’ve been doing those for years.
 
We actually started college visits years and years ago. For instance when we visited Williamsburg seven years ago we walked the grounds of William & Mary. While our kids were in elementary school we walked college campuses whenever we found ourselves in a  town with a college. We have the viewpoint that the question was not whether or not to go to college but which college will you attend? Having this viewpoint we wanted to provide our boys with ample opportunities to see what colleges look like.  Sure this wasn’t a serious look but it was exposure to what a college looked like and turned the word ‘college’ into a tangible structure. Before Junior year the boys had easily walked at least two dozen college campusses.
 
This exploration was all moved up a notch in tenth grade when we visited two college fairs. It was overwhelming for me to say the least. The one was in the Philadelphia Convention Center, sponsored by NACAC and the other at a local college. Both fairs had over 100 colleges attending, pushing their college features and wanting to talk seniors. not 10th graders. Attending a college fair senior year was a bit more productive however DS became familiar with college names in 10th grade so I don’t feel it was a a total waste of time. Oh, and DS was totally disinterested in attending either college fair but we went anyways.
 
Junior year we visited a few colleges in the fall and another half-dozen in the spring. Prior to each tour I visited the college’s website, learned when their tours were being held, registered if it was required, wrote down directions and most importantly looked for any special programs they might have upcoming. For instance when I looked at Lehigh University I spotted specialty engineering tours. Sure enough in the list was one geared to biochemical engineering. Quickly I registered DS and put it on our calendar. I’ve heard that girls will just do all this exploring and scheduling themselves but part of me doesn’t believe it. I question the source and since this is OUR experience, and what WE did I don’t want to steer you wrong. I did the exploring of college campus websites throughout DS’ Junior year.  He was just not interested but on the tours he definitely paid attention, asked questions and took mental notes.
 
I found that any questions I had were easily answered by the administration person after her/his talk to the group. I know some colleges request the kids have an interview but that wasn’t the case with us. No interviews, at least not yet.
 
I’ve heard some folks say that college visits are a waste of time and money since you can explore the colleges website and get the same information. I don’t agree. The website presents the information in the manner the college wants you to receive it. As a senior DS visited one college as a Freshman-for-the-day. He went to a couple classes and ate lunch with upper classmen. It was an enlightening day for him. He found the chemistry class and the calculus class were covering material he had as a Junior in his AP classes. What a huge confidence booster to him. Over lunch he asked each upperclassman how they were able to pay for college. Each replied that Daddy was paying their way. DS knows that will not be true for him and wonders whether he will fit in with kids who are financially better well-off than he. At a different college the students spoke of their scholarships, summer jobs and internships when asked how they were paying for college. Not one referred to Daddy paying their way.
It really was in early fall of senior year that DS began exploring college websites, investigating what programs they had, courses a student might take, the college’s SAT score profile and even the college’s girl : boy ratio.  The college visits did eliminate a couple colleges and moved one college to the bottom of the list. DS also removed one college when he heard about the extra hoops for homeschoolers above and beyond what other colleges require from homeschooled students. 
We went on campus tours both while schools were in session and over the summer time. For us it didn’t make much of a difference. Perhaps if we were looking at very small schools it would make a difference but I also know that DS will be attending admitted senior day. These days will give him a better chance to see the schools in session and get a feel for whether or not it is the school for him. 
 
But how do you find out about colleges and which ones might be best for your dc?  Here are a few to get you started. We used the first two.
 
 
 
DS didn’t attend a college fair junior year but then insisted upon attending one senior year. I reluctantly took him. It was at the local college and at least 150 colleges were there. DS walked the aisles and I walked a few steps behind him, giving him his space. At one point I suggested he speak to one college. When DS resisted I happened to mention that the school is an excellent engineering school and he should explore it. Plus it is quite a drive from our home. DS went over and spoke to the man, a little mini-interview. This school is now at the top of DS list.
I’m glad we didn’t rule out college fairs, on site visits, specialty days or all-day visits. It has been part of our journey and a fun part!

14 Days of homeschool

Filed under: Family Stuff — December 29, 2009 @ 3:47 pm

Funny skit, must watch for a good laugh.

14 Days of Homeschool

Truly Educated

Filed under: Family Stuff — December 29, 2009 @ 2:48 pm

This quote is for the good homeschooling woman who feels AP courses should not be taught by high school teachers without PhD’s in the subject matter.

People who are truly educated and enlightened do not thumb their noses at other people’s efforts but, rather, support and encourage them.   Janez Arko

Yes, Janez, you are correct. We should help each others efforts, support and encourage them. This other woman truely baffles me. Of course it is OK for her to teach AP courses to her child, call them AP courses but not have the gumption to take her course through the College Board audit process or submit her child to the rigourous AP test. Yet those of us who do teach AP courses who have taken them through the College Board Audit process, and have our students take the AP test are somehow in the wrong. I do not understand her.

College Application Documents — Book List

Filed under: College — December 26, 2009 @ 4:02 pm

The package I sent off in my DS’s college application was thick and a bit time consuming to put together. Actually time-consuming is a relative term. Putting together his package was an enjoyable task as I walked down memory lane. The documents included:

School Profile
Counselor Letter
Transcript
High School Activities & Awards
Course Description
Book List

Over the coming weeks I’ll describe in detail how I put each document together, resources that helped me along the way and suggestions on how you might do these yourself too.

Remember as you compile these documents that there are multiple approaches you too could take in reaching a finished document but there is one over-riding principle I followed and I suggest you do the same. These documents will paint a picture of your child, his homeschool years and it is up to you to decide what will be in that picture and how it will look.

BOOK LIST

This is one document that was not requested by any of the colleges DS #1 applied to. My point in providing the list was to help paint the picture of a student who reads for fun and enjoyment, one who is an avid reader and one not stuck on a particular subject matter, genre or author. The document was three pages in length, single space, one book per line—more on that later, 10 point font.

We did not keep track of books through the years and it sure would have made the task easier if DS had. Although I asked DS to track his books, he did not. Instead we used great book lists, 1001 books to read before you die,    outstanding books to read before college, Amazon.com and other book lists to help DS spark his memory for the books he has read. It was not a complete listing. I know DS missed books that he read but that is OK. The book list was titled:

A Selection of Books Read for Fun and Enjoyment through the High School Years

Using the term selection I hoped would convey that this was not a complete listing. Since any books for a class were listed within the course description document this list just had the fun and enjoyable–by DS standards—books.

The list was organized by author’s last name. Listing by author permitted me to note where DS read numerous books by one author without listing each and every one. For instance the list has:

Terry Pratchett, Discworld Series, and 15 books by this author

Really, who would want to read all 15 titles. The point I wanted to convey was that DS liked Terry Pratchett enough to read 16 of his works and that this kid is an avid reader. Point made in one line in my opinion. Doing this also permitted me to shorten the document without cutting down DS’ immense list.

How you put together this list or even if you put together one, is really your call unless a college specifically tells you they want a book list in a certain manner. I’ve seen book lists by genre, by year published, by book title, by author and even in chronological order by when it was read. I had a hard enough time pulling this list together without trying to pin DS down to the time-frame of when he read the book.

I wanted the list’s appearance to be simple enough for someone to grasp the extent of books DS has read in the last three years. Who knows, perhaps the admission’s person also used the list to search for their favorite author, to see if DS liked the same author he did and gain a connection to DS. Maybe they didn’t even look at the list, but I doubt it. Many admission’s personnel told us that they read every piece of paper submitted in the application. Some colleges do request book lists from homeschoolers but do not expect or request such a document from non-homeschoolers.

And in the end, DS has for all time, a record for his keeping of the books he read for fun and enjoyment throughout his high school years. Nice little gift from me to DS.

Merry Christmas Eve

Filed under: Family Stuff — December 24, 2009 @ 3:24 pm

The stockings are hung by the chimney with care but look! St Nicolas has already been here!

The presents surround our Christmas tree. I have no idea what is in most of them since Santa (DH) took care of all the shopping this year. He always knows what each of us needs and the presents are always great and well received.

The pies, apple and a pumpkin, are made and the Kentucky Butter Rum cake just came out of the oven. Lobsters, scallops, crabmeat and shrimp are in the frig for tomorrow’s casual seafood dinner. We are ready with our deviled eggs, liver pate and pigs in a blanket appetizers for munching but I imagine we won’t have any room for these after our apple strudels.

There’s sweet potato casserole and Parker House rolls yet to prepare. Youngest DS needs to make our onion dip and then we will be all ready.

Not all is going smoothly in the house though. Oldest DS has a slew of computer programs to write for his online class and he is diligently working through them. Once they are turned in he has two tests to complete for his Calculus class and one last college application to file. So much for him catching up on Physics and American Government this past week. And my siblings claim a homeschooler never has homework–HA!

Merry Christmas to ALL!!!

One family member, that’s all I ask

Filed under: Family Stuff — December 22, 2009 @ 4:47 pm

I’m on Facebook with both friends and family as my friends. Over the past several weeks as DS’ college acceptance letters have arrived I’ve posted ‘Status Updates’ about DS’ college acceptance letters and his scholarship awards. Five times. Five colleges whose acceptance criteria is selective or highly selective. He has been named to their honor college, or as a Founding Scholar, or extended a Provost Scholarship….

Not one family member has yet acknowledged his accomplishment or extended any sort of congratulatory note let alone a hooray, or way to go. My one sis, in a phone conversation with me, stated that DS would be getting a full-ride if he was a PS kid but that I really did a disservice to him by pulling him out (10 years ago). Who knows, maybe he will get a full-ride yet. The admission season is just beginning. But does it never end? Over the years I have celebrated with them their own kids successes but a simple—that’s great, or hoorah—-is too much for them?

Have you been in my shoes and did family ever turn around? Actually I don’t expect mine to ever turn around and get it. That homeschooling does work.

Over the years when family was negative toward us hs’ing I really felt that maybe, if DS wins this competition or that writing contest or scores high on this test or is named as an AP Scholar with Distinction….. extended family might just acknowledge that hs’ing was ok. It never has happened and their comments have been quite the opposite–how he would have accomplished so much more if he was just in public school.

And then again, I know it doesn’t matter. My homeschool friends are posting wonderful comments in response to SIL’s latest anti-hs’ing comment to one of my posts–she claims that folks use hs’ing as an excuse to just pull their kids out with very poor follow-thru. I’ve been hs’ing for ten years and I have yet to meet one family who has done that. It won’t matter if I tell her that though, she still won’t see DS’s accomplishments, his college acceptance letters as anything significant. And I guess I’ve got to realize that even though he has been accepted by colleges, my entire extended family on both sides, will never acknowledge that hs’ing works.

If your extended family supports your decision to homeschool, thank them please. It would be so nice if just one family member supported our decision. I really would have thought that by now, after all our boys successes, one would have, from either side. Just one family member, that’s all I ask.